Browsing Category: Go Visit: Family Friendly New York

New York is our current home state and our main playground and there is plenty of family friendly stuff to do in New York. We live in an area called the Hudson Valley and in fact, my sister blog at Hudson Valley Parent lists a new place almost every week of things to do in just the Hudson Valley area.

However, the Hudson Valley is just a small piece of the puzzle that makes up New York.

In this category, readers can find both day trips and longer trips to do with their families in New York whether it is an outdoor adventure such as wandering the Appalachian trail, going to an orchard or catching a show.

We will also highlight towns we visit. There are so many small towns in New York with a lot to explore with your family. When people think of New York, they often think New York City and while yes, we will write about the city, there are also small towns to that are great options either for an extended weekend or a day trip.

One place you will find a lot of information on in this category is the all-inclusive resort, Pine Ridge Dude Ranch. It’s a great trip anytime of year whether it’s for a day, weekend or week.

Also in New York, you will find we write about a lot of trails. We spend a lot of time in the woods. In fact, Abby girl and I have traveled over three hundred miles in the last four years. We even have a separate page dedicated to reviewing different trails we’ve been on.

So come read about New York and all the family friendly options it has to offer for some amazing adventures.

 

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Go visit Alder Lake in the Catskills because it simply took my breath away. That is if you can find it. Abby girl and I had no intention of visiting this lake and in fact, almost missed it thanks to no GPS signal whatsoever. My GPS literally dumped us on top of a mountain in the middle of the Catskills! But, we like to have those impromptu, throw the dart type of moments. It’s a lot of what makes Adventures with Abby Girl.

We were just leaving forest festival in Margaretville, NY, when Abby announced that she wanted to go on a hike. Well, we weren’t truly prepared for a hike in the middle of the Catskills, so I quickly (while I had signal) looked at AllTrails. After, going back and forth between a few trails labelled “easy” and also “shorter” … My dart was thrown at a place called, Alder Lake.

A few miles up Route 28, turn right and stay right. There is a sign for a road closure. However, you split off up the dirt road. It is like a playing chicken type of road. Abby reviews the road as bumpy. I explained that the Nissan was car hiking. Car hike we did and up we went. Well, until the GPS blurts out, “You are here”. “Here,” was on top of a mountain in the middle of the Catskill, Mountains. So I decided to keep going. Most normal people, turn around here and try something else. Not us.

I eventually got to the bottom. Here is the crucial part. There is sharp turn to your left. Take that. Go through the yellow gate. I ended up down the road and had to ask locals before taking out their very large road barrel. Just turn left and save the headache. Also don’t tell my husband that I hit a very large, non-mobile road barrel with his car. I thank you.

Alder Lake Map
Good Idea to take a picture of map before hike

At the gate, keep going down the road and don’t feel temptation to veer off. You will clearly see the trail head and a nice parking lot. Once out of the car, don’t forget to sign and then out of the log book. It is for safety as well for tracking traffic to destinations such as Alder Lake.

To your left, you will be greeted by old ruins. In fact, history side note, ruins are called Coykendale lodge . You can read all about the general history here.

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I think this beyond fixer-upper

We decided to do a loop around the lake, which, is just under two miles. We went to the right. DON’T DO WHAT WE DID. We ended up on a very rugged, almost non-existent trail close to the lake.

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yogi had to go

Abby kept yelling poison ivy and there was bear poop. I’m serious, like steamy, fresh, I hope it’s the Charmin Bear family or yogi and not some big scary beer because they had been there very recently.

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The Trail is here somewhere

We eventually found our way to an opening at a campsite and ran into a family and a forest ranger. He told us we had taken the animal run or fisherman’s trail. He pointed behind himself, at a lovely trail. The ranger tried to make me feel better and tell me it happens to everyone including him. I asked him about camping and he told me that there are 14, first come first serve sites that you have to hike everything in. Not for the weekend warrior. My husband flat-out refused because he didn’t think he could carry in a giant tent and all his beer, meat products and inflatable air mattress.

The ranger also told us where to find a spring coming out of the mountain where it was safe to get water from the pipe. Please, take from the pipe and not the pools below. You could end up with the screaming poops. Also remember, this is my only approved way of drinking unfiltered water.

He pointed us in the right direction and off we went. We took a side trail for a bit and decided to turn around. However, I read that there is a summit just over six miles and a lean-to about 1.5 miles up if you are looking for more hiking.

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Best water ever

We got back on the main trail and found the glorious mountain stream. We drank a lot of water. Abby described it as “tasty.”

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Lake Trail in woods

After our break, we hiked on. From here it was just over a half a mile to our car. We passed the same group of people again and they told us next time, there is an awesome tree on the trail that we missed that has roots that literally wrap around a rock. I guess it is a wicked, cool, photo-op.

Back at the car, we signed out of the log book. We took the fellow hikers advice and went back the way we came-up the dirt road. My car literally, an inch of red dust on it by the time we arrived home. There is no car-wash nearby. So, your car must remain dirty for a bit. So, if you hate having a dirty car, this hike is not for you. Otherwise, you can try drawing smiling faces in the dirt. It’s thick enough.

Alder Lake is great for just relaxing, fishing, hiking and camping. A true little piece of Heaven on Earth. That is if you can find it and you can handle it.

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All links should be on the bottom or side of page depending on what you are viewing on. Remember, to tune into Instagram this weekend when Abby answers a couple more questions for our viewers. You can view past weeks questions there too. Oh and one last thing, our sister blog is over at hvparent.com/adventures-of-abby-girl

Want us to come to you? Please send an email to discuss options or receive a media kit. We are also looking to start highlighting adventurous mamas again. Check it out on this page! https://adventuresofabbygirl.com/adventurous-mama-and-me-of-the-month/

Lastly, I have updated the My Favorite Things Page on this blog because I’m now designing t-shirts. I do receive a small royalty from each one I sell. Many feature photos from our adventures. So go have a look. 

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Section hiking on Appalachian Trail in New York, took Abby and I two trips. The first trip, was from Stormville Mountain Rd in Stormville, NY to Route 55 in Pawling. The second trip, a week later, from Route 55 to Route 22, Pawling NY. We aren’t comfortable with sleeping solo, yet and just hiking onward.

Trip #1/ Stormville Mountain Road to NY 55-

It was very humid and very hot. I believe low 90s.

Before considering hiking in this weather, please make sure you are able to handle the conditions and if you are like me and traveling with a small person, be extra vigilant. Lots and lots of water, cool clothes, hat, bandanna … Only go if all parties are used to it. Children get heatstroke faster than adults. I hike a lot and it felt like I was being punched in the lungs and I was breathing in a very small space when I started as she was on my back and I was lugging an extra pack off that one. Once I pushed through and my lungs acclimated, it became a lot easier.

Tip #2-

Also be prepared for bugs. This section was done in July and the bugs were not too bad. However, we did part of this section in the Spring and it was a nightmare. The only place I got bit bad was the first road you cross after Mount Egbert.

Tip #3-

Lack of water. You should always carry water or water and a filtration system. Never drink water. Especially standing, stagnant water. As Abby girl says, “you will poop yourself.” This section lacked water. At the start of the hike, Trail Angels do leave jugs of water. If they are open, I used to filter them because you never know. I hate to think that way, but even if a stranger took a swig. Gross.

Terrain-

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Onward and Upward

This section isn’t too bad. There is a lot of up and down. There is only one summit and this is Mt. Egbert. There are some small scrambles and rocky sections. One scramble is hard with a monkey on your back. It is heading up to Mount Egbert and I literally had to hoist my leg up and pull my body by gripping rock. At this point, Abby was still sleeping on my back.

Section #2/NY 55 to NY 22-

Section #2 was a lot buggier. I walked away with some pretty bad deer fly bites. They were literally biting me through my clothes even with bug spray. My husband asked me later on after the hike why I had bug bites on my hip … I replied, “I hiked naked.” I really didn’t. You just couldn’t stand still for very long. Some of the higher elevations and more forested settings, the bugs did let up. However, around Nuclear Lake in the beginning and at the end heading into Great Swamp territory, the bugs took no prisoners. Abby and I were walking fast screaming “bug in eye.” literally got bugs stuck to our eyeballs.

Terrain-

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Grrrrr

Now that I have scared everyone. You are probably thinking this sounds horrible. It wasn’t. As a hiker, it’s par for the course. It happens. The lake is beautiful and a great place to stop. I made a crown of wild daisy’s for my wild child.

It is a lot of wandering. A lot of up and over and through the woods. Shortly after the lake, you start winding upward. Abby took the opportunity for a nap. Then lost a shoe and I had to hike a half mile back when I was almost to the summit. As one dad I saw said, “he’s been there a few times too.”

The summit of Cat Rocks overlooked all the rolling farm land and mountains in the distance. Watch the drop and the view point with small children. I didn’t let Abby get too close to the edge.

The trip down after the summit had some wild berries this time of year. Not many left and it dyed my child’s hands and face purple. My hands also were stained. I cannot resist some berries. Caught purple handed. Some were crunchy. Bugs give you that extra protein boost. It was the pick me up you need for the steepness ahead.

It’s a lot of downhill from here. One section is a bit of scramble. Nothing too horrible. Just watch your footing and you can always butt scoot if you are nervous. If Abby age 3.5 can do it, you can. Well, maybe not as she is apparently, part monkey.

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Tree Hugger

The next highlight is the Dover Oak. Stop, hug and awe in it’s glory. Just don’t get hit by a car crossing old Rt 55 to see the Oak.

After that, it’s more uphill. The uphill is through several fields. Several fields in direct sunlight. I was glad my child covered me in mud before this section. Helped a lot.

Then the final section is heading toward, and then, into the Great Swamp to do battle with the bugs. Just hike quickly.

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Abby girl and I played games and sang songs to keep both of us going. She was heading into the four mile range on her feet without a carry and six miles total. At this point we had traveled almost eight miles. So games like Eye Spy or Bear Hunt really do wonders. Sang the ABC song a million times and counted a lot.

The Great Swamp-

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Enjoying the Biology Lesson

Our pickup location was the Great Swamp. We have been here several times. It is a beautiful places and all boardwalks. We sat and had an impromptu science lesson while we waited for our ride home from dad. The water had receded and a snake was eating the dead fish. Gross to some … But, Abby Girl was fascinated. This is the child who loves watching Dr. Pimple Popper.

At the end of the Great Swamp, carefully cross the train tracks. You have already survived merciless bugs, being a billy goat, playing frogger and getting nettle burns. You don’t need to get hit by a speeding train.

If you are lucky like us, a cool air conditioned car and your favorite snacks will be waiting. Abby talked about a Taco party for about a mile before pickup. We are still waiting for the Taco Party. Perhaps another post?

Conclusion-

All in all both trips were awesome and it really helps to be able to just go and not have to do in and out trips. Where are we heading next? Subscribe to follow our next adventure!

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All links should be on the bottom or side of page depending on what you are viewing on. Remember, to tune into Instagram this weekend when Abby answers a couple more questions for our viewers. You can view past weeks questions there too. Oh and one last thing, our sister blog is over at hvparent.com/adventures-of-abby-girl

Want us to come to you? Please send an email to discuss options or receive a media kit. We are also looking to start highlighting adventurous mamas again. Check it out on this page! https://adventuresofabbygirl.com/adventurous-mama-and-me-of-the-month/

Lastly, I have updated the My Favorite Things Page on this blog because I’m now designing t-shirts. I do receive a small royalty from each one I sell. Many feature photos from our adventures. So go have a look. 

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Want to go to an awesome Dude Ranch right in the Catskill Mountains in New York? Well recently, Abby girl returned for her summer visit to Pine Ridge Dude Ranch with her family. She had an amazing time.

Some of the many activities to do at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch in the summer. To see what other activities they have to offer, visit their website! You can also go here to read a blog post about different activities Abby girl and family tried.

Great times at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch

Saturday night, we got to see a great magician/comedian in the Bull Room. His name is Stephen Christopher. It’s the downstairs nightclub at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch. Pine Ridge Dude Ranch offers activities into the night and often has more than one activity happening at once. We were at dance party before the magician! So much never-ending fun.

The animals at the ranch are a true highlight. We spent a lot of time hanging out in the goat pen. Where else can you do that? There was also horseback riding for the whole family, programs that involved the animals and don’t forget the resident cows and chickens!

Now she wants goats …

Check-out the freebie inspired by our trip over on the My Favorite Things Page! A Special Thank you to Pine Ridge Dude Ranch for hosting us and making this post and these videos possible. They in no way influenced what is written above.

Please remember to subscribe if you liked what you read and you can also follow us on many different social media platforms.  Also, a lot more awesome content on YouTube. All links should be on the bottom or side of page depending on what you are viewing on. Remember, to tune into Instagram this weekend when Abby answers a couple more questions for our viewers. You can view past weeks questions there too. Oh and one last thing, our sister blog is over at hvparent.com/adventures-of-abby-girl

Want us to come to you? Please send an email to discuss options or receive a media kit. We are also looking to start highlighting adventurous mamas again. Check it out on this page! https://adventuresofabbygirl.com/adventurous-mama-and-me-of-the-month/

Lastly, I have updated the My Favorite Things Page on this blog because I’m now designing t-shirts. I do receive a small royalty from each one I sell. Many feature photos from our adventures. So go have a look. 

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Barton orchard is an awesome place for an outdoor adventure trip that you can do in a day. We go to their farm store often for rainbow bagels. But just recently, they opened two very awesome treetop adventure courses.

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Enjoying the ride

Abby girl got to try out the Koala course. We obtained our ticket at the marketplace at Barton Orchards. We then went for a quick potty break before heading back to wait for the tractor. The tractor ride in itself is awesome and fairly long. We joined a couple other moms with children and headed to the course via our tractor ride.

The Koala Course

Koal Course
Getting all setup

At the course, the instructor had all the harnesses laid out and helmets ready. He was awesome at explaining everything and supper helpful getting our gear situated properly. Abby is a tad peanut sized so it takes some cinching to everything nice and secure.

All the children then followed the instructor with the mom’s in tow over a bridge to the koala course. 

Koala Course
Almost time!

One at a time, he hooks each child in and off they go. Abby did the course twice. However, many of the other children completed several times. Abby got hungry. So she needed to stop for a food break.

When she got scared or unsure, the instructor was right there to talk her through it as I’m not much help yelling “you got this.” He also held her hand or hands if needed. On the second time down zipline, the instructor even let go of her hand at almost the beginning when she jumped and Abby thought it was awesome!

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Just one Foot in Front of the other …

One of the little boys was also great at helping my daughter and the other girl get through where you have to swing your rope past certain cross points. So remember, if your child is small or doesn’t have much upper body strength, the click through points might be difficult.

After our second time and food break, we said our thank you and headed back over the bridge, grabbed the tractor and went back to the market store.

Back at Main Farm Area-

We grabbed a delicious cookie and a Lipton ice tea and had a snack break. Next, we visited with the menagerie of very friendly animals that are at the orchard. I think they wanted my cookie. Is this like “If You Give A Mouse a Cookie-Farm Edition?” Don’t worry, we didn’t feed them.

Barton Orchard
If you Give a farm animal a cookie …

After that, we went up to playground. I should never have suggested the “p” word. I sat on bench and let Abby go play with other children. Not five minutes at playground, heard a scream and one of the mom’s brings me my very now bloody child. Blood, from nose, chin, mouth. I should know by now how much a face bleeds from her other daredevil experiences. I used one mom’s phone. One ran for first aid. It was all blur.

To the ER!

I got Abby in car and took her to Vassar ER. Luckily, she ended up being fine. They think mild concussion, banged up chin, cut on inside of lip, nose bleed and some additional bruising. Again, not our first rodeo. We were told she was very lucky and a very tough little girl. We’ve heard that several times too. See one of our earlier blog posts about the great fall. Life of a wild child adventurer.

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Look at me! Ouchies!

However, just two days later, Abby requested to return to Barton to do the Koala course again. She also got a clean bill of health at doctor and was honestly more concerned about her splinter in her foot.

So it’s highly recommended for children under seven. I also over heard one mom saying to check availability as summer camps will be coming in too to try it. There is a bigger course too for children over seven and a certain size and adults!

As far as playgrounds? Abby said she doesn’t want to see a playground right now. Understandable Abby girl. Understandable.

Where it happened

Cost Breakdown for Trip-

Cost of koala course- $9.95
Cookie and drink- $5.00 approx.
Trip to ER- $100 copay
Follow-up visit to doctor-$25
Our cost- $139.95

Average cost if anyone else goes-$14.95 with a snack per a child.

Fact that she had an awesome time (besides fire pole) and survived everything-priceless

Lesson learned– sometimes if you try something new, it might turn out awesome or you might just get smacked in the face

Additional Closing Thoughts-

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Want us to come to you? Please send an email to discuss options or receive a media kit. We are also looking to start highlighting adventurous mamas again. Check it out on this page! https://adventuresofabbygirl.com/adventurous-mama-and-me-of-the-month/

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Pine Ridge Dude Ranch. Many may have read our blog posts over at our other site, https://hvparent.com/adventures-of-abby-girl about visiting Pine Ridge Dude Ranch last month during a snowstorm where my husband couldn’t go because he had to stay home and plow … Luckily, we got an opportunity to return this weekend and got to bring dad along too. We even had the same room which are the Dakota rooms. a set of bunkbeds and two beds. Abby girl got brave and slept solo on the bottom bunk until about 4am. Then she joined us. They are newly renovated too. You can learn more about room options for any family size on their website.

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Looking lovingly at daddy’s goofy face

I felt inspired to blog again because we got to experience even more this time around and it was different with the whole family there. Well, besides the family dog, Noodles. I thought I could dress her up as my really ugly child and put her in a stroller. However, I figured it was best to leave her with the sitter.

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Noodles wearing her wig that she wore as the star of Happy Dog the Film

So let me start by writing that it was great to return a month later because when you visit somewhere new for the first time, sometimes the first time is like “oh wow, this was great. I can’t wait to return and bring everyone including my crazy Aunty Mertle.” Then you go back and it’s like a balloon being popped or the second experience at a new all you can eat buffet where upon the second return, all you get is plate boogers and rubbery chicken. Not the case here.

The Staff

Again, amazing. So many guests go through there in any given month and the fact that everyone remembered us, is really special. Not only did they remember us, they once again, were accommodating and extremely friendly. I also like to randomly talk to people which is really outside my comfort zone as in gives me itchy spots trying to talk to people. Everyone seemed really happy and if they had a need, it was met immediately. I even spoke to a few that were originals, like myself, to Pine Grove Dude and now repeatedly coming to Pine Ridge Dude Ranch. Some, again like me, with their own family. One lady and her family already visited 3 times just this winter! That speaks volumes.

Pine Ridge Dude Ranch tractor

The activities-

Last time we were at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch, we missed some very fun activities thanks to mother nature and a big layer of snow ice. This time around, we took a tractor ride the first day. So warm outside and the sun shining. We got to go all the way around the lake and Abby girl saw several deer. Some were bedded down and staring at us through the trees. It’s a nice length ride too.

deer
“Sometimes I feel like, Somebodies watching me …”

Then my highlight, the goats. We were in the pen with the goats. Brian aka the dad, waited outside, he raised goats as a child and opted to hold my gear instead and watch us have fun. I seriously could hangout with goats all day.

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Goats, Goats, Goats.

Brian and I got to leave Abby in daycare and again, she had a great time and made a craft while we went for a trail ride. Walk only again because the terrain is still not safe for anything else. We didn’t ride together. However, that is fine by me. They asked if I wanted to be near him and I made the decision to stay put and just enjoy the scenery. I see him all the time.

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I’m going to do it. Better catch me.”

Abby went on a couple Pony Rides too and if it is up to her, she would have rode the pony all day long. She even wore her jeans and boots for the occasion. I guess, mom, will be looking into Western Riding Lessons in the near future. Suggestions welcomed. Couldn’t she pick a safer option like chess or Parcheesi? I guess not since this is the child that launches herself into the air and smashes into the floor and then yells “I’m alright mommy!” all the time.

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Back in the saddle again.

Abby got to go swimming again with her dad this time. I couldn’t swim, I just dyed my hair reddish brown. Brian told Abby the chlorine might make mommies hair pink. No, most likely the bottled hair dye would turn orange and I would look like Bozo the clown. Hey, perhaps then I can get a job as an entertainer at the ranch. I digress and also really dislike clowns.

SWIMMING
Don’t pull my beard!

The Usual


We did many other things we did last time too such as the arcade and the saloon. Even the two older children aka mom and dad enjoyed the arcade.

At the Saloon, Abby is now nicknamed tiny dancer. Before anyone gets in an uproar, children can stop in saloon but cannot belly up to the bar. She likes Shirley Temples. They make her feel like a big girl and she enjoys dancing to the Jukebox. We accidentally played the same Journey song twice. My bad. Brian even took her back to the room and let me have some alone time with other adults. I didn’t have to use words like potty for a whole hour or tell the person next me good job and slap a sticker on them or tell them to use their words.

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This is awkward mom face because you forgot what to do with yourself without your child there and you aren’t drinking a juice box ….

The Food-

Again the food was tasty. I didn’t eat the main dinner because yes, I was at a Dude Ranch and I don’t eat smoked or BBQ or spicy food. I had fried chicken for lunch on way up to ranch and so no chicken finger children’s meal. There was plenty of filling options at the salad bar and chef made me a roast beef sandwich the size of my head. But, Brian gave the ribs thumbs up. I do wish they would have had some naked grilled chicken available with no sauce on it and mentioned the raisins in the carrot cake.

However, the cake was delicious, I just ate around the raisins. Breakfast buffet had many options and me and Abby girl loaded up on bacon. We are a bacon family. Lunch was sandwich station, soup, nuggets, chips, cookies, salad bar. No, I didn’t get another roast beef sandwich, if that is what you are wondering.

food at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch
Some had to stick their head in picture …

So once again, we cannot wait for warmer weather to return for another weekend at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch. I think Abby Girl already has her bag and “yeehaw” clothes ready to go. We highly recommend Pine Ridge Dude Ranch for a down home, all inclusive Dude Ranch Resort in the heart of the Catskills . If you would like to learn more or book a reservation now, go to their website

-I was in no way influenced about what to write in this blog. Thank you for reading and a special thank you to everyone at Pine Ridge Dude Ranch that made this trip possible. Below are some more highlights and pictures of the ranch.

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More photos and highlights of Pine Ridge Dude Ranch! Including Abby in stolen red lips for night-time activities and her retrieving her puppy that luckily fell off tractor right at end of ride. Life is never dull with Adventures of Abby Girl.

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