Abby Girl

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benefits to getting outdoors with children
that’s a lot of stairs. Kaaterskill Falls, Catskills NY

In a world full of technologies, children seem to be more and more sitting in front of some sort of device. The weather is nice, with spring here and summer right around the corner that it’s a great time to explore all the benefits of playing outside with your little ones. All you need is to unplug and get outdoors. My 2.5 year old and I are on an outdoor adventure almost every day of the week in the nice weather and depending on where you are reading from, you may have the advantage of glorious weather all year-long!

1.-When your child is outside they learn a lot.

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taking photos from a new angle

So when school lets out, education doesn’t have to stop, just get outdoors.  My child has learned a lot of education that she most likely wouldn’t have learned inside too. You ask her what a spider is and she says “arachnid”. You ask her what water is that doesn’t move and she says stagnant. She is learning to count and read a map. We love interactive forests. It’s a fun way to learn about all your native trees, animals and plants. So check to see if you have any near you. 

*Local to Hudson Valley Tip: Vassar Ecological Preserve in Poughkeepsie, Esopus Meadows and Little Woods Nature Play Trail at Freedom Park all have interactive forests.

2. Life Skills

She is not just learning all kinds of educational points but life skills as well. She is learning to be strong, independent, and a leader. A lot of times I take her lead and let her direct me where to go.  She is also learning to problem solve like when we come to a small stream she has to cross without falling in or the best route up a mountain.  She is learning kindness and a love of nature and animals around her.

Perseverance is being learned as well. Sometimes on a hike, it becomes challenging just like life can sometimes become and she has to learn to push on and keep going. 

One other awesome skill she is learning is trust. The other day, we were on a hike and the trail we were hiking became steep with loose rock. My daughter looked at me and said “mama hand.” She is trusting me to help her navigate. When she felt it was safe, she told me to let go.

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Queen of the Mountain

3. Outdoors Brings Creativity

Another awesome thing about getting outdoors is creativity. You can climb a pile of rocks and become a mountain goat or an explorer. or imagine what is hiding in the crevasses and little holes in the ground creating an epic story that depending on age, can go home and write about. You can pretend you are just about anything when you are outdoors. Depending on where you are and the rules of where you are, you can also collect things for an art project later on. Some places have a leave-in place policy. So check the rules before you take anything. We are starting to collect rocks to paint and then I am going to write where they are from so she begins a collection.

4. Let’s Get a Good Workout

It’s also great exercise and good for your health. It’s fresh air! Can’t get any better than that. My daughter,  at 2.5, if she wants to, can now solo about a mile and do small rock scrambles. She’s a very strong little girl and loves being outdoors. I know for a fact, when she gets on a device at home, she can become a totally different being. She is so much happier outdoors.

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Walking with my Best friend

Final Thoughts

From camping to hiking to leisurely walk around your local park or even feeding a llama at your local nature center, the options are endless. Go get lost. Go stick your toes in a cool stream or jump in a big muddle of mud in your own backyard! Become a great explorer. Venture to new places.The skies the limit. Go enjoy the great outdoors. G

Thanks for reading! As always-Peace, Love and French Fries, Adventures of Abby Girl

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It is that time of season again. The trees are blooming, the birds are chirping and the happy little animals are frolicking in the road without a care as big metal beasts zooming down the road. In this case, there was a turtle in the road and yes, we do try to brake for turtles. So what do you do?

Now here is my disclaimer-We were on a back road and could safely pull over to rescue the turtle.

-When braking, pulling out of the way or pulling over, practice safety and common sense. We don’t want you to become a roadkill casualty alongside whatever you were trying to rescue.

-Remember, certain types of turtles can really hurt you.  Snapping turtles can eat your fingers like a Vienna Sausage. Picking them up by their tails can dislocate their vertebra. This will permanently injure them.

-When you get home, you should really wash your hands too or use hand sanitizer in your car.

Our Story-

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mom with turtle

We were coming home from running errands when my husband yells, “turtle” and proceeds to pull over. He gets out of car and grabs this cute little painted turtle from the middle of the road. He brings it into the car and we show Abigale as he begins driving toward the pond. We tell her all about our little hitchhiker. Then I start asking silly questions such as,

“What about his family? Won’t Mrs. Turtle wonder where he is?”

My husband just looks at me silly and replies,

“The turtle is getting upgraded to a nicer pond … It’s moving day.”

I know it is wrong of me, but my immature five year old, inner self was kind of hoping the turtle would pee on my husband. I know.

We continued driving down the road as my husband yells,

“Fastest turtle in the world going forty miles an hour.”

My daughter in back seat, must think her parents are completely insane.

We pull-up to the pond and he passes the turtle to me to bring down to water’s edge. As I’m walking down, I hear two guys shouting and pointing from other side. They had rescued a turtle too. We shout back and forth to each other in victory and I grab my cell to take another quick picture before leaving Mr. Turtle at his new home.

It was a great small adventure for Abigale and taught her a little something too and maybe I gained back some karma points after flattening the chipmunk the other day. Just remind yourself, as much as you want to, you can’t save them all.

Final Thoughts-

Here are some awesome turtle facts. One point we did wrong, is you never move a turtle from their location to another pond.  All the key points on how to properly move a turtle can be found here. When in doubt, call your local wildlife rehabilitation place.

Happy Spring everyone!

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turtle in new home

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We are also selling prints from our travels and adventures as well art inspired from as well including homemade windchimes and necklaces.

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rundown Beacon NY
Burnt out, rundown buildings
I went down to Madam Brett park, in Beacon NY. I called my husband as I began my hike. He was all worried because I was in Beacon walking past the rundown, burnt out buildings.

To the Marsh-

Tidal Marsh, Beacon NY
Tidal Marsh
But, there was so much more. I realized I wasn’t going in the direction I wanted to go in,  but ended up on a trail that took us to the tidal marsh. It smelled like the ocean. There were men fishing the marsh and birds shooting out from the tall weeds. It was really beautiful and a change of scenery from our usual wooded adventures. Abby thought it was awesome. I even taught her to say “tidal marsh.”

Trail to the Waterfall-

We walked around a bit and headed back to check trail on other side of car. Abby kept stopping to look at the very fast rushing water on the bridge and I kept yelling for her to get back as I had a nightmare about a drowning the night before and some ominous woman told me to watch my child in the dream. So naturally, I listened
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the bridge
to lady in my dream and watched my child like a hawk. We got to other side of lot and began the other trail. It was drastically different and led to a nice waterfall. I prayed it wouldn’t make Abby pee because I knew I really had to go and the rushing water was not helping my mom bladder at all.
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the metal bridge
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The trail continued on, unmarked and me being me, knew Abby was securely on my back and my cat like reflexes could do this new stretch. So I balanced and walked along some cement barriers. I got to a rusty ladder that led up a giant cement block and then a ladder on other side brought you to a continuation of trail. But I could hear my damn husband in my head saying, “that’s not safe.” Combined with the dream lady that told me to “watch my child” … I  decided to listened to the voices in my head and saw a patch of what I thought was dirt on my other side. So I said, “I can do this” and went for it!  Umm nope. It was clay and I began to sink and sink fast. I grabbed roots on other side and shook and wiggled and freed myself. My daughter thought it was hilarious. My one boot and leg were solid mud and I smelled like a pottery studio. I got to other side and explored a little further before turning around. This time I didn’t listen and shook the ladder. It was very secure so I went up and over, Abby on me like the little spider monkey she is in her framed, backpack carrier. Typically I would take her down and let her climb. But I just wanted to be done. I got back to car and went to MC D’s … No judgement for a fries celebration, and finally, a pee break. Then we went home after sending a lovely text of my boot to my husband with the words. “I fell in.”

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We love hiking the Hudson Valley. However, this time did not go as planned.  It became a short hike with many attack bugs and so much mud.  Yes, this was going to be an interesting hike. In fact, it ended up being one of those days overall. Most of Abby Girl’s clothes and parts of of my body would sadly become a casualty.

The Beginning-

I started out the day not able to find my dogs leash or collar or harness. I should have taken it as a sign from above. But I didn’t and proceeded to load my 2.5 yr old and perfectly plump canine into the vehicle and went.

After stopping at tag sale because my daughter can always use more stuff we stopped at store for a leash for my dog not child to clarify as she has been wearing the dog’s collar recently … But I’m not paying almost ten dollars when I know it’s somewhere in my house. My daughter probably was wearing it and hid it somewhere. So I was going to to say screw it and forego the hike, but as the sky seemed to clear I said, “self we will go for a hike”. I know of places where my dog doesn’t need to be leashed.

Side Note: I have recently found in a hiking no leash or collar emergency, the dollar store often has some sort of selection and they do just fine

Girl and dog playing in the mud
Noodle dog with a leaf on her nose. She was so happy she didn’t notice it

The Hike-

We couldn’t go far because my car is on a slow and painful death so we swung into one of our local, lovely nature preserve. Luckily, no one was there most likely because it was 100 percent humidity and the bugs are out in full attack mode. Loaded the dog out of car, and child … Got bug spray lathered me and child in it and off we went.

Who knew so much could happen in .5 miles! My daughter had to pee. She started squatting with her panties still on cause the concept of peeing in the woods is so much different than at home. Pull down your stuff and go. But, no .

So as I hastily pull everything down, underwear, socks and shoes become a casualty. I was able to spare the skirt.

She then asked to lose the skirt and I say fine, you have a fairly long shirt on and no one is around. But shortly thereafter, she asks for her tutu back. Most likely because bugs were biting her butt.

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JUMP

Then on way back and may I add, .1 mile from car, my child decides to jump in a tiny stream. The same stream I tried to clean panties in and turned black from swamp mud. They ended up in the trash. No amount of stain product was saving them.

Up And down she jumped and yes, the “tutu” fell off. Black. So she finally gets bored and asks to go. So I put her tiny bare butt on my back, yell for dog and head back to car.

A final insult was my failed bug spray as I was carrying her and some kamikaze bug got my elbow. I can’t defend myself as my arms were holding tiny legs. If I attempt to swat bugs, child goes down. I took the bite for my daughter because I am an awesome mom.

We make it back to car. Load everyone in and home again we go. My very fun and buggy hike. FYI I am the only one who got attacked … Is it because I am so sweet? Hahahahahaha.

Closing Thoughts-

Please remember to subscribe if you liked what you read and you can also follow us on many different social media platforms.  Also, a lot more awesome content on YouTube. We would love Subscribers over there too!

Want us to come to you? Please send an email to discuss options or receive a media kit. We are also looking to start highlighting adventurous mamas again. Check it out on this page! https://adventuresofabbygirl.com/adventurous-mama-and-me-of-the-month/

Lastly, I have updated the My Favorite Things Page on this blog because I’m now designing t-shirts. I do receive a small royalty from each one I sell. Many feature photos from our adventures. So go have a look. 

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If you go have hike adventures at Locust Grove, you will have an awesome time. In fact, we kicked off our official warm weather hiking season with two back to back hikes here.

 

 The First Hike-

The first hike was fairly short and hot. I hiked it with my friend Carol and her daughter who Abby calls “Ju Ju.” That’s her best friend and partner in crime.  So, we did a small loop and that was it. Drama free hike.

The Second Visit-

I went with Abby and a determination set in to find the Hudson River. I knew it was there somewhere. So with my daughter on my back, I began our hike. We took the path less traveled that took us to the outskirts and we went by some lovely swamp and overflow water. It was a great opportunity to teach my two-year-old, the word stagnant water. Yes, I know, she’s two. But, it sounded so cute. Hiking is a creative way to introduce different educational experiences with your child no matter their age.

 

We stopped to look at squirrels, birds, and chipmunks. She loves birds and kept screaming “bird” in the back of my head in between her random humming. We eventually found a sign directing us to the Hudson River. It was pretty. Nice place to camp if you were allowed.

 

After being interrupted by a call from my husband, we hiked on. We got to the stream at the big hill that leads back to the gate out and Abby had to go toss things in. It all started a while back when we had a science lesson on what floats and what sinks. She now can spend endless time, tossing various things in the water. FYI almost everything she tosses in, sinks.

After over a half-hour of water and muddy fun, she wanted to backtrack and take the parallel trail through the buggiest area. She kept yelling bug in a panic and I thought to myself …

“ummmm yeah, you picked the buggiest trail dear.”

We took our time before heading back up through the gates, past the old human and pet cemeteries and into the gift shop. We chatted for a while with a lovely lady and headed back in the car and looking forward to our next adventure. Learn more about Locust Grove here.

Final Thoughts-

Locust Grove is a great destination place beyond hiking that is rich in history and beauty. There is an art gallery inside and a beautiful mansion. You can also find out about this spot to rent for special occasions. They host events also throughout the year. In addition, there are gardens that are gorgeous in bloom. The whole experience feels as if you have stepped back in time.

Thought from a year later-

A Revisit thought. My three-year-old daughter recently found an old map of Locust Grove in our house and was talking about ghosts in the cemetery and wolves. She was calling the tombstones, big rocks. So this might be a place for ghost hunters and history buffs too! Who knows!

 

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